We started out with 75 - 85 # dumbells. we soon moved up to 100#s. I was knocking out sets of 10 reps for 5 or 6 sets in no time.
Next up was the 110#s. this is a 20lb jump. each dumbell weight is 110#s. this is a big jump in the world of dumbells. I started out doing 10 reps 1st set, then 6 reps 2nd set. After several weeks I was doing 3 sets of 10 , then a set of 6 or 8. I said let me try the 120#s. this is a BIG DEAL. mentally its very difficult. these dumbells can and did get away from me on 2 occasions and I luckily avoided them dropping on my face. I started taping the grips after dropping them mid lift. it takes a strong grip to hold heavy dumbells, 110#s and 120#s even more so. Well I did the 120#s for a set of 8 reps. This was the one and only time I did the 120#s or 115#s. I told my lifting partner when I master the 110#s I get back to the 115#s and 120#s. No sense in just lift them for 1 set then being too tired to lift anymore.
Well over the last several months I mastered the 110#s but was intentionally avoiding the 115#s, 120#s. A mental block , its very real. Hell Ive done the 120#s months ago, I ve been lifting and training hard. Why was I getting paralysis on 115#s. So today I said its go time. I just did heavy back rack yesterday, wasn't really feeling good after my first 3 or 4 sets of 100#s and 110#s today. A little sore and tired, so I told myself, what better time then now. It makes your brain do what it absolutely does not want to do. DEAL WITH SOME PAIN.
So after 2 sets of 15 at 100#s, then 2 sets of 12 at 110#s I taped up the 115#s. I placed them on bench at my knees and got my mind focused, prayed for a good lift and no injuries. BAM.
Layed back with them pulled tight into my chest and once flat on bench I pushed them up. Bam.
Firtst set of 10 , Done ! Finally dealt with that mental blockage. Waited 5 mins and did a second set of 10. Yep, Feeling good about this. Next lift I will be repping the 120#s now that I broke through mental wall.